“I don’t want to be a round peg in a round hole!”

We all know the cliche, and common recommendation for poor job fit in companies: “Put the round peg in the round hole, and square peg in the square hole”. But, what if someone just does not fit in?

I was once told by a training manager of a large corporate: “Anil, all that happens when you train my staff is that they leave in six months”. He alluded to the notion, that the learning had given staff self belief and confidence, which – though beneficial, was not necessary good for their investment in training with me.

What could I answer to that?… “Sir, maybe I did you a favour. Maybe they were never meant to be there in the first place – and I did save you money?” To which, we later agreed and in good spirits confirmed the next training group.

Training and motivational talks, though useful, may not be the solution required for fixing people challenges; usually job fit, good recruitment and selection practices are the best places to start with.

However, let’s return to our original question: “What if someone just does not fit in?”

Chances are that that person is driven by their personal objectives more than corporate objectives. Often such people know inwardly that they don’t belong in a team, but don’t have the courage or fortunate circumstances to exit the organisation and follow their passion. Also, they might know what that passion is. To spend a lifetime going with the flow, is a wasted life.

Staff turnover is not a bad thing; sometimes: it’s a cause for celebration. The best organisations welcome the opportunity for people to follow their passions, and be true to their desires. No true leader wishes to hold followers back; and that is not true followership.

Rather than me suggest solutions, may I ask you for your opinion and possible suggestions below?

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Motivating Gems from the PSASA 2012 convention

Professional Speaking

  • We will not succeed if we do not accept change
  • ‘Ability will start you off, motivation will drive you and attitude will sustain you but the wrong attitude will guarantee failure’ – Charles Marcus
  • Having a vision is a game changer
  • ‘Technology rocks but Relationships rule. People do business with people they like and trust’
  • Never think that value and price are the same
  • Differentiate yourself with value or die on price
  • It’s no use being an expert if you are not booked or making money
  • “The privilege of the platform” – it is a privilege to stand in front of an audience
  • If you are not sold on you, no one else will either
  • It’s takes a lot of energy to try and be perfect, rather let them see you as you are.
  • “It is my imperfection makes me eligible to be a great speaker” – Mykola Latansky
  • Choose the life of transparency and you will always look to improve yourself
  • Live every second of your life as if it is your last second. Then you won’t waste energy on wearing a mask
  • Hold on to the spirit of sharing as its good for all of us around the globe
  • When you bring emotion into negotiations it can go wrong
  • “You wouldn’t think a speech on Negotiation could bring moisture to the eyes.” – Douglas Kruger
  • “The difficulty in life is not avoiding death, it’s about avoiding corruption” – Bertie du Plessis
  • “Reciprocity equals the debt of gratitude” Martin Limbeck
  • If you don’t believe in yourself, how can others believe in you
  • “You can’t tell what a person has been through, nor can you tell what they are going to do in the future” – Richard McCann
  • “There are more people that never went to prison that dont do what they want to do. They live behind imaginary bars.” – Richard McCann
  • Never be ashamed of where you are from
  • Values are like fingerprints, nobody’s are the same but we leave them everywhere we go – Elvis Presley

(credit: tweets and thoughts from Francious Muscat, Douglas Kruger, Fred Felton, Makhosi Khosa, Anil Salick and #vocalislekker)

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Come back stronger

On July 26, 2008,  Miguel Cotto, then undefeated light middleweight champion of the world,  suffered his first loss as a professional to Antonio Margarito in an unsuccessful title defense. It was a gruesome match as the unrelenting, forward and confident Margarito dominated round by round to an eventual 11th round stoppage. The fight would later be marred in controversy about the use of suspected illegal hand wraps by Margarito.

That fight would have shattered Cotto to consider possible retirement, and thoughts of certain inferiority. But Cotto took time out, gathered again and started a come back. With 2 wins in 2009 against worthy competitors, he would prepare to fight the hottest name in boxing: Manny Pacquiao.

On November 14, 2009 Cotto would taste defeat again – this time in the 12th round by Manny’s quick hand speed, movement and impressive style that earns him the reputation of possibly the best boxer of all time.

With a further win in 2010, and one in 2011 – Cotto would now set his eyes on a rematch with Margarito. On the 3rd of December 2011, a disciplined, more focused and smart moving Cotto would earn him victory against a nemesis who’s previous defeat must have haunted him.

Miguel Cotto now reignes as WBA (Super) light middleweight champion. He is a now a four-time world champion in three weight divisions (light welterweight, welterweight, and light middleweight).

Isn’t this true about the kind of attitude and focus we should have personally and in the business world?

Any great businessman understands that you have losses in business. But, you also have wins. It’s the reason we’re in the game. To try to only maintain wins in business is delusional. Sometimes our losses are great. They can make us question our worth, mistrust our judgments, live in regret, depression or settle for less or mediocre.

Simple suggestions of inspiration:

  1. Know your worth and value. Keep that in your mind’s eye, and entertain the possibility that it could be much more.
  2. When defeats happen, have a great attitude – look at the positives and know that it could have always been much worse.
  3. Take time out. Get advice from the best in the industry. Listen. Take notes. Watch the movie again to learn the lessons to take out, but not excessively to hold living in the past.
  4. Plan your comeback steadily. Pick the right battles. Have small winning experiences. Success begets success. Get your confidence back. In a real way, isn’t this really about what’s happening in your mind – how you talk to yourself and what actions you engage in?
  5. Go for the big match (according to your definition and thought). Small wins prepare you for the big game – don’t shy or cower. If you’re a champion, you’ve got to fight the best.
  6. Events do not define you, your habitual responses eventually do.

Always, come back stronger!

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Why 2012 is just the beginning.

The world is not going to come to an end, according to Mayan prophecy. That is superstition. It can, in reality, be just the beginning of many things to come.

Many people set goals or resolutions, and then review their progress towards the year end. Sometimes we surpass expectations, sometimes we fall below. Sometimes its by chance, sometimes its by design. Regardless, each year is an opportunity to be better somehow. Each year that goes by is a time that shall never pass this way again.

So, why postpone, why delay, why play safe and comfortable? Why not try, venture and think bigger. Clearly, the pain of regret weighs more than the pain of growth, or the pain of failure.

Five simple things to ponder upfront:

  1. Do I choose to be happy?
  2. Do I feel a sense of purpose or cause to make 2012 special?
  3. Have I written down my goals?
  4. Am I doing simple daily habits that reinforce a positive self image?
  5. Am I learning something new and surrounding myself with positive people?

These are five questions that can make 2012 great. It’s not the quality of the answers, but the quality of the questions. May you question more, and choose to listen. Often there answers are closer to our challenges than we realise.

 

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Trees die from the top

“A man (or woman) might know too little, perform poorly, lack judgment and ability, and yet  not do too much damage as a manager. But if that person lacks character and integrity – no matter how knowledgeable, how brilliant, how successful – he destroys. He destroys people, the most valuable resources of the enterprise. He destroys spirit. And he destroys performance . This is particularly true of the people at the head of an enterprise. For the spirit of an organization is created from the top. If an organization is great in spirit, it is because the spirit of its top people is great. If it decays, it does so because the top rots. As the proverb has it, “Trees die from the top”. No one should ever become a strategist unless he or she is willing to have his or her character serve as a model for subordinates”

- Peter Drucker, one of greatest management gurus.

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